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Rebekah - Master Manipulation

Rebekah - Master of Manipulation

Selections from Genesis 27

While Esau went to the field to hunt some game to bring in, Rebekah said to her son Jacob, "Listen! I heard your father talking with your brother Esau.  Now obey every order I give you, my son. Go to the flock and bring me two choice young goats, and I will make them into a delicious meal for your father - the kind he loves. Then take it to your father to eat so that he may bless you before he dies."

Jacob answered, "Then I will seem to be deceiving him, and I will bring a curse rather than a blessing on myself." His mother said to him, "Your curse be on me, my son."

Tricking Isaac to make him honor Jacob over their older son didn't just pop into their mother's head overnight. No, she'd been watching, plotting, strategizing. Wonder what might have happened if she'd have put that much effort into her marriage?

Remember the Rebekah we met back in Genesis 24? The sweet little Hebrew girl who went out of her way to serve Abraham's messenger, drawing up enough buckets to cool off all ten of his camels? (And, boy, can they drink a lot!) Look at her now. Just goes to show you what can happen when we leave our marriages unattended, unfed, uncultivated. People who once pledged their love at the altar can become strangers living in the same house.

What are you doing to keep that from happening at your house?

Look At It This Way ...

This may have been the culmination of a long-term power struggle. Both Isaac and Rebekah may have been resorting to that age-old tactic we call passive-aggressive behavior. In short, they were giving each other the silent treatment. Whatever the dynamic in this relationship, Rebekah determined she had to help God fulfill the prophecy he gave her regarding Jacob. He must have Isaac's blessing in order to "be stronger than" Esau. Unfortunately, she forgot that God had decreed that "the older will serve the younger." What God predetermines, he will bring to pass, though he chooses to use human beings to carry out his purposes. He never decrees that people use deceptive and manipulative methods to help him accomplish his divine plans. Very seldom does God condone the end justifying the means. He is a God of truth and light, and "in him there is no darkness at all" (1 John 1:5). What Rebekah did was clearly wrong. She was a bad example and a stumbling block for her son Jacob, and she dishonored her husband with her forthright and deliberate deception. - Gene Getz

A Final Thought:

There are lots of ways to be deceitful in marriage.  We may call it being "less than truthfu," but that's just a nice way to say we're lying, manipulating, controlling.  Is that person you?
 

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